"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"What are you doing?" During sex
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
No body is asking anyone to rape anyone else. Hopefully she is already turned on by your physical image, your voice and the convo
you where having.
EyeBRollin
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If you’ve got her turned on, you will never ever hear those words.
lamath
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All women want men to take charge when things gets sexual, from my experience nothing turns then on like a little bit of agression and roughness.
But got to be able to calibrate and read her body language. Because indeed this could turn into some serious ****
mrgoodstuff
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EyeBRollin, yes you will hear those words. It's a anti-slut defense or a little game they play when they are suprised at hiow forthcoming you are. And after you say "you know what I'm doing", you continue, then she can stiffen up or so "no I don't like that" and you stop.
But no one is going to have sex with verbal compliance at each step of the way. IE: "I'm about to reach around you and unhook your bra, is this okay?", OK, "now I'm about to reach in front of you and start to unzip your pants, are you agreeable with this action?" No one is doing all of that.
Use some common sense. If she really doesn't want you doing it STOP. And if she really doesn't want you doing it on a couple of successful dates or hangouts, then STOP all together. She doesn't want to be physical with you, and it's okay. Find someone else.
No one hear should be putting themselves in situations where rape can be blamed. The thing about it, is you don't even have to have sex or be physical with someone and they can accuse you of rape, and you can have completely consentual sex and she can say rape. If your worried about all of that, video tape EACH and every interaction in your car and in your place. Get consent in your text in your phone. I hate that part of it has come to all of that but much of it has.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
EyeBRollin
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You completely missed the point. This has nothing to do with verbal compliance. I’ve never been in the bedroom with a woman and heard such words. Hence, OP is doing something massively wrong.. likely moving way too fast and just being oblivious to how to turn a woman on. He is going down a dark path. This is one shvt test that should never happen.
mrgoodstuff
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mrgoodstuff
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Anyways in the game its safest to deal with babes who strongly desire you. They will be feeling all over you and undo your clothes.