"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"What are you doing?" During sex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
No body is asking anyone to rape anyone else. Hopefully she is already turned on by your physical image, your voice and the convo
you where having.
EyeBRollin
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If you’ve got her turned on, you will never ever hear those words.
lamath
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All women want men to take charge when things gets sexual, from my experience nothing turns then on like a little bit of agression and roughness.
But got to be able to calibrate and read her body language. Because indeed this could turn into some serious ****
mrgoodstuff
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EyeBRollin, yes you will hear those words. It's a anti-slut defense or a little game they play when they are suprised at hiow forthcoming you are. And after you say "you know what I'm doing", you continue, then she can stiffen up or so "no I don't like that" and you stop.
But no one is going to have sex with verbal compliance at each step of the way. IE: "I'm about to reach around you and unhook your bra, is this okay?", OK, "now I'm about to reach in front of you and start to unzip your pants, are you agreeable with this action?" No one is doing all of that.
Use some common sense. If she really doesn't want you doing it STOP. And if she really doesn't want you doing it on a couple of successful dates or hangouts, then STOP all together. She doesn't want to be physical with you, and it's okay. Find someone else.
No one hear should be putting themselves in situations where rape can be blamed. The thing about it, is you don't even have to have sex or be physical with someone and they can accuse you of rape, and you can have completely consentual sex and she can say rape. If your worried about all of that, video tape EACH and every interaction in your car and in your place. Get consent in your text in your phone. I hate that part of it has come to all of that but much of it has.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
EyeBRollin
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You completely missed the point. This has nothing to do with verbal compliance. I’ve never been in the bedroom with a woman and heard such words. Hence, OP is doing something massively wrong.. likely moving way too fast and just being oblivious to how to turn a woman on. He is going down a dark path. This is one shvt test that should never happen.
mrgoodstuff
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mrgoodstuff
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Anyways in the game its safest to deal with babes who strongly desire you. They will be feeling all over you and undo your clothes.