"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are the odds in your personal experience

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I have a few personal friends who are players and the odds they seem to have vary dramatically. Some get numbers from 80% of women, some get them from 20%. However i think the reason my one friend gets 80% is he only approaches women who he senses are checking him out (he is a bodybuilder) while the 20% guy just approaches cold whomever strikes his fancy. 20% for a cold approach seems pretty high actually when you consider that alot of women are in relationships or are not interested in you.

So what are the odds you are seeing for getting numbers or dates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
 
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Originally posted by Le Parisien
I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
True.
 

So pimp its scary

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"the only way that you know for sure that a girl is into you is if she lets you put your penis in her vagina."

and even then...
 

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...that just means you picked up a tramp.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
...that just means you picked up a tramp.
Every girl is a "tramp." The good girls, the smart girls to the party girls, they've all had multiple hookups and one night stands.
 

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It's all how you define 'good girl'. Many people consider 'good girls' who stay monogamous while in relationship but slvt it up HARDCORE when they're single - that the modern, 'big-city, fast-life' defnition of a 'good' (moral) girl. Some really do think that any random acts of sex or whatever is bad, and actually don't sleep around. I think you definately have a point JT, but your views may be very strongly colored by the type of social scene you immerse yourself in, and thus what kind of women you run into.
 
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