"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What are the odds in your personal experience

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I have a few personal friends who are players and the odds they seem to have vary dramatically. Some get numbers from 80% of women, some get them from 20%. However i think the reason my one friend gets 80% is he only approaches women who he senses are checking him out (he is a bodybuilder) while the 20% guy just approaches cold whomever strikes his fancy. 20% for a cold approach seems pretty high actually when you consider that alot of women are in relationships or are not interested in you.

So what are the odds you are seeing for getting numbers or dates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Le Parisien

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I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
 
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Originally posted by Le Parisien
I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
True.
 

So pimp its scary

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"the only way that you know for sure that a girl is into you is if she lets you put your penis in her vagina."

and even then...
 

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...that just means you picked up a tramp.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
...that just means you picked up a tramp.
Every girl is a "tramp." The good girls, the smart girls to the party girls, they've all had multiple hookups and one night stands.
 

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It's all how you define 'good girl'. Many people consider 'good girls' who stay monogamous while in relationship but slvt it up HARDCORE when they're single - that the modern, 'big-city, fast-life' defnition of a 'good' (moral) girl. Some really do think that any random acts of sex or whatever is bad, and actually don't sleep around. I think you definately have a point JT, but your views may be very strongly colored by the type of social scene you immerse yourself in, and thus what kind of women you run into.
 
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