"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are the odds in your personal experience

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Pettycoat Junction

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I have a few personal friends who are players and the odds they seem to have vary dramatically. Some get numbers from 80% of women, some get them from 20%. However i think the reason my one friend gets 80% is he only approaches women who he senses are checking him out (he is a bodybuilder) while the 20% guy just approaches cold whomever strikes his fancy. 20% for a cold approach seems pretty high actually when you consider that alot of women are in relationships or are not interested in you.

So what are the odds you are seeing for getting numbers or dates.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
 
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Originally posted by Le Parisien
I personally don't think getting numbers is necessarily a gauge of success since getting numbers is NOT our goal pers se.

Getting dates is on the other hand a very good measure of success.
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True.
 
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"the only way that you know for sure that a girl is into you is if she lets you put your penis in her vagina."

and even then...
 
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...that just means you picked up a tramp.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
...that just means you picked up a tramp.
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Every girl is a "tramp." The good girls, the smart girls to the party girls, they've all had multiple hookups and one night stands.
 
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It's all how you define 'good girl'. Many people consider 'good girls' who stay monogamous while in relationship but slvt it up HARDCORE when they're single - that the modern, 'big-city, fast-life' defnition of a 'good' (moral) girl. Some really do think that any random acts of sex or whatever is bad, and actually don't sleep around. I think you definately have a point JT, but your views may be very strongly colored by the type of social scene you immerse yourself in, and thus what kind of women you run into.
 
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