"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what are the best places to approach women?

spang

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i know you can do this anywhere but where should i go to find them? most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me and wont talk to me anyway, i hate bars, starbucks sucks balls. so that leaves me with:

grocery stores
walmart
book stores

what else?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Down Low

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spang said:
most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me
Impossible. They have breasts, don't they?
 

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Hey man, same sitch. I've found I have considerably better results from girls who are older than me than girls who are younger than me.

anyway, the train station is a good spot for me. And I'm surprised no one has mentioned shopping malls, because it is usually one of the first suggestions.
 

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There is no right or wrong place to approach. Anywhere women exist is a good place. Period.

From personal experience I've found the EASIEST place (and by "easy" I mean.. requiring the least amount of game) is at parties. Any type of party.

Parties are great because socializing is really the only thing to do. Bars and clubs have loud distracting music and loads of random strangers. At a party.. everyone knows someone through someone or they would not be there. This puts girls more at ease and makes them feel like they are "among friends". It lowers their defenses regarding meeting new men and getting really really really drunk.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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