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what are the best places to approach women?

spang

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i know you can do this anywhere but where should i go to find them? most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me and wont talk to me anyway, i hate bars, starbucks sucks balls. so that leaves me with:

grocery stores
walmart
book stores

what else?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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spang said:
most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me
Impossible. They have breasts, don't they?
 

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Hey man, same sitch. I've found I have considerably better results from girls who are older than me than girls who are younger than me.

anyway, the train station is a good spot for me. And I'm surprised no one has mentioned shopping malls, because it is usually one of the first suggestions.
 

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There is no right or wrong place to approach. Anywhere women exist is a good place. Period.

From personal experience I've found the EASIEST place (and by "easy" I mean.. requiring the least amount of game) is at parties. Any type of party.

Parties are great because socializing is really the only thing to do. Bars and clubs have loud distracting music and loads of random strangers. At a party.. everyone knows someone through someone or they would not be there. This puts girls more at ease and makes them feel like they are "among friends". It lowers their defenses regarding meeting new men and getting really really really drunk.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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