"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what are the best places to approach women?

spang

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i know you can do this anywhere but where should i go to find them? most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me and wont talk to me anyway, i hate bars, starbucks sucks balls. so that leaves me with:

grocery stores
walmart
book stores

what else?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Down Low

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spang said:
most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me
Impossible. They have breasts, don't they?
 

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Hey man, same sitch. I've found I have considerably better results from girls who are older than me than girls who are younger than me.

anyway, the train station is a good spot for me. And I'm surprised no one has mentioned shopping malls, because it is usually one of the first suggestions.
 

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There is no right or wrong place to approach. Anywhere women exist is a good place. Period.

From personal experience I've found the EASIEST place (and by "easy" I mean.. requiring the least amount of game) is at parties. Any type of party.

Parties are great because socializing is really the only thing to do. Bars and clubs have loud distracting music and loads of random strangers. At a party.. everyone knows someone through someone or they would not be there. This puts girls more at ease and makes them feel like they are "among friends". It lowers their defenses regarding meeting new men and getting really really really drunk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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