"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what are the best places to approach women?

spang

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i know you can do this anywhere but where should i go to find them? most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me and wont talk to me anyway, i hate bars, starbucks sucks balls. so that leaves me with:

grocery stores
walmart
book stores

what else?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Down Low

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spang said:
most of the girls i go to school with are too young for me
Impossible. They have breasts, don't they?
 

sageproduct

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Hey man, same sitch. I've found I have considerably better results from girls who are older than me than girls who are younger than me.

anyway, the train station is a good spot for me. And I'm surprised no one has mentioned shopping malls, because it is usually one of the first suggestions.
 

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There is no right or wrong place to approach. Anywhere women exist is a good place. Period.

From personal experience I've found the EASIEST place (and by "easy" I mean.. requiring the least amount of game) is at parties. Any type of party.

Parties are great because socializing is really the only thing to do. Bars and clubs have loud distracting music and loads of random strangers. At a party.. everyone knows someone through someone or they would not be there. This puts girls more at ease and makes them feel like they are "among friends". It lowers their defenses regarding meeting new men and getting really really really drunk.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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