Are they rich and married, or rich and incel?That money doesn't bring you happiness. The list of depressed rich people who were counting on it to but then realized it didn't and are in despair over that is very long...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Are they rich and married, or rich and incel?That money doesn't bring you happiness. The list of depressed rich people who were counting on it to but then realized it didn't and are in despair over that is very long...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
IrrelevantAre they rich and married, or rich and incel?
You deflect because you know you won't win. Rich unhappy people are married. A incel will never be miserable from being rich.Irrelevant
I don't feed the trolls.You deflect because you know you won't win. Rich unhappy people are married. A incel will never be miserable from being rich.
That doesn't help. You're just like anyone else that makes the "You're too dumb for me to explain X, so I refuse." I'd like to see if anyone thinks people of this type are better than the other types.I don't feed the trolls.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It’s not hard. Still, where I live I would not change a tire on the side of a major road. That is a death sentence.Seriously? Who the fnck doesn’t know how to change a tire? My 12 year old daughter could do it.
Hey I don't make the rules brahWhy? Just because I don't know something, doesn't mean I'm afraid of something.
Ehhh. Changing a tire = masculinity is a weird equation.Peak masculinity right here![]()
Triple AAA takes about 30 minutes and is $100 / year. And they’ll do it on the side of a six lane highway with cars buzzing by at 80 mph. People have died over here doing that shvt. My wife knows, I let her know what’s up. I’m not changing no damn tires on a live road.Imagine being in your car with your girl, having a flat tire and then waiting 2 hours for an insurance person to get jack > unscrew 4-6 screws > remove a tire > put the spare > screw 4-6 screws back > lower the jack. Respect lost from that girl.
My car is electric.Or just even paying $100 to replace oil and filter, things that men did since ever. But this generations has been the most incompetent.
Bingo, this.Rich" guys probably know very few on your list as they let other people do all those things
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What brings happiness?That money doesn't bring you happiness. The list of depressed rich people who were counting on it to but then realized it didn't and are in despair over that is very long...
Trust me, being poor brings your way more misery than being rich.That money doesn't bring you happiness.
Wouldn't the people that replace wheels, also know to tow the car a little out of danger ways?Triple AAA takes about 30 minutes and is $100 / year. And they’ll do it on the side of a six lane highway with cars buzzing by at 80 mph. People have died over here doing that shvt.
Sorry to say… better the tow-man than me. If you saw the viciousness of metro-NYC highways, you would understand.Wouldn't the people that replace wheels, also know to tow the car a little out of danger ways?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.