Are they rich and married, or rich and incel?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What are some things all rich men should know?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You deflect because you know you won't win. Rich unhappy people are married. A incel will never be miserable from being rich.
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I don't feed the trolls.
That doesn't help. You're just like anyone else that makes the "You're too dumb for me to explain X, so I refuse." I'd like to see if anyone thinks people of this type are better than the other types.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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It’s not hard. Still, where I live I would not change a tire on the side of a major road. That is a death sentence.
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Hey I don't make the rules brah
EyeBRollin
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Ehhh. Changing a tire = masculinity is a weird equation.Peak masculinity right here
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Triple AAA takes about 30 minutes and is $100 / year. And they’ll do it on the side of a six lane highway with cars buzzing by at 80 mph. People have died over here doing that shvt. My wife knows, I let her know what’s up. I’m not changing no damn tires on a live road.
If I lived out in New Mexico or something that’s a different story.
My car is electric.
AureliusMaximus
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Bingo, this.
You're an expert within your field of business, but besides that you have others to maximize your time available by outsourcing anything you are not good at or consider time waste to do yourself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What brings happiness?
AureliusMaximus
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Trust me, being poor brings your way more misery than being rich.
Anyone that says that money cannot buy happiness haven't tried to shop with a unlimited card in a shopping mall.
Money can buy you happiness and quality in life, but only if you are inside yourself already fulfilled and balanced. For the poor sods that think that money will fill their void in their hearts and soul by becoming rich (Because they haven't dealt with themselves first), they will most likely become more miserable.
Money is just tool that can buy quality in life. It cannot fix your internal personal issues deep inside yourself though.
Its like blue pilled guys and their logic way of thinking:
"I'm lonely and I want sex - women have sex and will makes me happy and I won't be lonely if i get a women".
Brings in more women into his life and makes him more miserable and his life to complete chaos.
E.g. you gotta do the work first or other women will make your life shyte. Same with the dash for the cash. You need to bea whole person to be happy with money.
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Wouldn't the people that replace wheels, also know to tow the car a little out of danger ways?
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Sorry to say… better the tow-man than me. If you saw the viciousness of metro-NYC highways, you would understand.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
