SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Post your stories! Post signs of being led on. Post what action you took when you found out.
Should be interesting.
Should be interesting.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What are some signs you're being led on by a female?
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
You're putting in more effort than she is. She's telling you one thing but her actions are telling you another.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
resilient
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For me, i'd say one dangerous word: indifference. Especially if you're the one putting in all the effort and she only gives you breadcrumbs or fleeting interest. Basically enough for you to hang on while she evaluates other options.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Totally agree. It's important to listen to ones gut feeling. I wish I listened to mine more often because it's almost always right
Who Dares Win
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I agree with the "feel your gut" guys here, anytime there is something wrong with a woman you subconsciously feel it.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
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Excuses, mixed signals, mixed interest level.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I love getting the phone number of a cute girl working at a store, and then dialing it later only to realize she gave me the store's number and not her number.
Bro you shouldn't be led on by ANY FEMALE. Once you start looking for "signs" she's already outsmarted you and made your head spin.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.