SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Post your stories! Post signs of being led on. Post what action you took when you found out.
Should be interesting.
Should be interesting.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What are some signs you're being led on by a female?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
You're putting in more effort than she is. She's telling you one thing but her actions are telling you another.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
resilient
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For me, i'd say one dangerous word: indifference. Especially if you're the one putting in all the effort and she only gives you breadcrumbs or fleeting interest. Basically enough for you to hang on while she evaluates other options.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Totally agree. It's important to listen to ones gut feeling. I wish I listened to mine more often because it's almost always right
Who Dares Win
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I agree with the "feel your gut" guys here, anytime there is something wrong with a woman you subconsciously feel it.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
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Excuses, mixed signals, mixed interest level.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I love getting the phone number of a cute girl working at a store, and then dialing it later only to realize she gave me the store's number and not her number.
Bro you shouldn't be led on by ANY FEMALE. Once you start looking for "signs" she's already outsmarted you and made your head spin.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.