SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Post your stories! Post signs of being led on. Post what action you took when you found out.
Should be interesting.
Should be interesting.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What are some signs you're being led on by a female?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
You're putting in more effort than she is. She's telling you one thing but her actions are telling you another.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
resilient
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For me, i'd say one dangerous word: indifference. Especially if you're the one putting in all the effort and she only gives you breadcrumbs or fleeting interest. Basically enough for you to hang on while she evaluates other options.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Totally agree. It's important to listen to ones gut feeling. I wish I listened to mine more often because it's almost always right
Who Dares Win
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I agree with the "feel your gut" guys here, anytime there is something wrong with a woman you subconsciously feel it.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.
Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.
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Excuses, mixed signals, mixed interest level.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I love getting the phone number of a cute girl working at a store, and then dialing it later only to realize she gave me the store's number and not her number.
Bro you shouldn't be led on by ANY FEMALE. Once you start looking for "signs" she's already outsmarted you and made your head spin.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.
Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.
I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.