What are some signs you're being led on by a female?

[SamTheHobit]

Post your stories! Post signs of being led on. Post what action you took when you found out.

Should be interesting.

 

[stevo]

You're being led on if you're not getting what you want. Plain, Simple.

 

[Suspens]

Your avatar reminds of of 'The Thing'.



@OP: Vagueness, lack of availability, listening to sad romantic songs, occasional rages, unwarranted and arbitrary flattery.

 

[GS750]

Excuses. Girls that are leading you on/stringing you along are full of them. And you know in your gut when she's feeding them to you.

 

[WanderingMan]

You're putting in more effort than she is. She's telling you one thing but her actions are telling you another.

 

[resilient]

For me, i'd say one dangerous word: indifference. Especially if you're the one putting in all the effort and she only gives you breadcrumbs or fleeting interest. Basically enough for you to hang on while she evaluates other options.

 

[El Payaso]

Pretty much what everyone above said.

 

[SamTheHobit]

The biggest sign that I always get comes directly from my gut.

For example, when a chick is going to flake on me, 99.99% of the time I already felt it in my gut. It's not really that interesting, & I can't really speak about it eloquently, but that is the biggest sign in my opinion.

Listening to your gut can be demanding and very difficult because it's easier to ignore what you think you know.

Totally agree. It's important to listen to ones gut feeling. I wish I listened to mine more often because it's almost always right

 

[Who Dares Win]

I agree with the "feel your gut" guys here, anytime there is something wrong with a woman you subconsciously feel it.

When you find yourself "to hope" that it will go good instead of being almost sure that everything will be alright for example.

Our instinct allowed us to survive from the ice ages to the world wars, I believe its surely more reliable that any funny story about women evaluate and reward you according to how much you respect them.

 

[nismo-4]

Excuses, mixed signals, mixed interest level.

 

[Solomon]

Excuses, mixed signals, mixed interest level.

This

 

[Poon King]

She does not follow your lead.

If everything is on HER schedule.. and at HER convenience.. then she ain't feeling you that much.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I love getting the phone number of a cute girl working at a store, and then dialing it later only to realize she gave me the store's number and not her number.

 

[Trump]

Bro you shouldn't be led on by ANY FEMALE. Once you start looking for "signs" she's already outsmarted you and made your head spin.

Through face to face: From their tone of voice, from their look, from what they talk about, from what they talk about their boyfriend.
Through email: Should take you about 2 sentences in the email she writes to you.

I really don't know how you guys survive in the real world sometimes. It shouldn't take you more than 47 seconds to figure out you are being led on.