Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hahahadopexile said:I prefer not to start convos. I just go up and introduce myself and let her know "these balls aren't gonna suck themselves, lady".
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I will agree about being dominate and controlling the flow.aldaris said:we usually talk about my chest and abs. hell, most of the broads i have been banging wanna avoid talking about their ****ty lives of kids and work. yeah, they are HORrible mothers and pretty pathetic people. do i care? hell no! if i can't bang'em the second time we get together out they go. so far i have been 8 of 10 in the last two weeks. the two that i gave up on were hopeless.
simply talk about whatever you think will lead you to getting them in the hay. the idea is to get your man muscle some work. this means that you must dominate the flow of the conversation. don't let the stupid fools get you off topic. sit up straight and dominate!! (that rhymes :cheer: )
Good grief. If the date ends, and he doesn't get laid, who gives a sh1t? Life doesn't revolve around getting laid or women for that fact. If he shows this girl he's desperate for sex, she'll never give it up. Are you expecting him to say, "Hey, let's fvck". Well if he listens to you, he'll never get a quality girl and his desires will be all messed up. Yea, he may get laid (and I mean a big "may"), but is that all there is? Now, I can understand not adding to much in your head to a date with some chick. Life won't end without her. Life won't end without fvcking her either.aldaris said:if you talk too much about her it will totally kill any chance you have of getting your love muscle some work within the aldaris two date rule* what happens is that she will probably become depressed and start thinking about **** that will only get in the way of you getting what you really want. so keep things revolving about why she needs you. if you spend too much time thinking about this crap you are pure afc. and you know how we feel about afc's :moon:
* this is the rule that says if you don't get your man muscle polished before the second date you gotta move on.
AMEN! I wouldn't even consider a relationship with a chick that gives it up that easily.tick37 said:If she hasn't fvcked by the second date, you've probably got a better woman than most. All girls I've fvcked were on the first date, and they all turned out to be of lesser quality.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol, sissy sh!t? I'm not sure what you're referring to, but I sure hope you're calling pizza sissy sh!t! Oh man, that would show what a weak-stomached burger lover you are!tick37 said:Forget all that sissy sh1t. Just talk about her. Don't talk to much about yourself. Talking about yourself shows selfishness. Pick on her and joke about some of the stuff she says so that you're not seen as falling all over her, but act interested and always try to relate.
From here on out, I'm only going to respond substantively if your post is respectful and open.tick37 said:Forget all that sissy sh1t. Just talk about her. Don't talk to much about yourself. Talking about yourself shows selfishness. Pick on her and joke about some of the stuff she says so that you're not seen as falling all over her, but act interested and always try to relate.