crackers444
Don Juan
Hey, I am wondering what are the key signs a girl shows interest in you online. It isn't alway's clear sometimes online or in person for that matter!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
crackers444 said:Hey, I am wondering what are the key signs a girl shows interest in you online. It isn't alway's clear sometimes online or in person for that matter!
Also how fast they reply. If you know they check it everyday and you dont get a reply until 3-4 days later... might not be a great signGangster Of Love said:Whe she tells you through IM/Email,etc. "Crackers444, we need to get together very soon, here is my number. Call me to schedule a meeting, because I want to meet."
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I agree with the first part, although a lot of girls do play hard to get for the prompt repliesLuke Skywalker said:They reply to your email - and they put a bit of work into their reply (not just to brush you off or make a technical reply), and/or if they email you first. Since it's really tough to make a connection online it's safe to assume if she replies promptly that there is interest.
definetely. then again it's true that if a girl respnds promptly to everything, then you've got money in your hands, but it defeinetely isn't a do all end allVixen said:It's hard to generalise. Some women may play hard to get, others might play sort of hard to get so they don't sound too forward - others will be like me and be about as subtle as a divebomber. What's her personality like? Her past history with guys, all that jazz? It's easier to (accurately) figure out a girl's responses, or lack thereof, if you actually take into account who she is. She's not a random in a club you met 10 minutes ago, so you have a bit more to work with.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Simple, she agrees to meet you in real life and after the meeting she suggests, or agrees to meet yet again. In a nutshell, she's not going to hang out with you if she's not interested. Now the question is really whether or not she sees you as more than a friend.crackers444 said:Hey, I am wondering what are the key signs a girl shows interest in you online. It isn't alway's clear sometimes online or in person for that matter!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.