crackers444
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Hey, I am wondering what are the key signs a girl shows interest in you online. It isn't alway's clear sometimes online or in person for that matter!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What are good signs a girl likes you online?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gangster Of Love
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crackers444 said:
Whe she tells you through IM/Email,etc. "Crackers444, we need to get together very soon, here is my number. Call me to schedule a meeting, because I want to meet."
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They reply to your email - and they put a bit of work into their reply (not just to brush you off or make a technical reply), and/or if they email you first. Since it's really tough to make a connection online it's safe to assume if she replies promptly that there is interest.
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When she types lol a lot even when your jokes weren't funny.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
drummer
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When she sends you naked pics.
I met my boyfriend (though started as friends with benefits) online, via someone we both knew in RL. As I recall, I came out with something uber-subtle like: "So. Want to f*ck me?"
I'd say that's a pretty good sign.
Trust me, you'll know when she wants you. What medium do you use to chat? As in, is it via email, MSN, etc?
I'd say that's a pretty good sign.
Trust me, you'll know when she wants you. What medium do you use to chat? As in, is it via email, MSN, etc?
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I agree with the first part, although a lot of girls do play hard to get for the prompt repliesLuke Skywalker said:
It's hard to generalise. Some women may play hard to get, others might play sort of hard to get so they don't sound too forward - others will be like me and be about as subtle as a divebomber. What's her personality like? Her past history with guys, all that jazz? It's easier to (accurately) figure out a girl's responses, or lack thereof, if you actually take into account who she is. She's not a random in a club you met 10 minutes ago, so you have a bit more to work with.
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definetely. then again it's true that if a girl respnds promptly to everything, then you've got money in your hands, but it defeinetely isn't a do all end allVixen said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's almost impossible to tell when online.
I had this one who e-mailed every single day. I missed a reply one day, and she still sent one asking if that meant I wasn't interested. So she was keen.
Well I found out from her myspace that she's been seeing a few of us. It matched up with times she's said "i'm busy with friends".
She had been doing the exact same thing with several people.
Moral of the story: you can never get a "vibe" online. Everything can be faked with text.
I had this one who e-mailed every single day. I missed a reply one day, and she still sent one asking if that meant I wasn't interested. So she was keen.
Well I found out from her myspace that she's been seeing a few of us. It matched up with times she's said "i'm busy with friends".
She had been doing the exact same thing with several people.
Moral of the story: you can never get a "vibe" online. Everything can be faked with text.
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When she initiates the conversation a lot. Also, when she talks to you three or four straight hours. (Man, that reminds me how much of an AFC I used to be... I had a hottie who used to talk to me for hours online, and I wondered if she liked me... duh.)
If she's sexually interested in you, as was stated twist the converstion slowly to something sexual and see how she responds. It has to be a slow, gradual, subtle change, unless you're talking to Vixen
Another trick to do... If she's online intermittently (like she turns her computer off, versus people who leave their computer on and their IM window up), start keeping your IM window open, even when you're not using your computer. She if she starts doing it, too. There's a good chance she's hoping to see you randomly send her an IM when she walks by her computer.
If she's sexually interested in you, as was stated twist the converstion slowly to something sexual and see how she responds. It has to be a slow, gradual, subtle change, unless you're talking to Vixen
Another trick to do... If she's online intermittently (like she turns her computer off, versus people who leave their computer on and their IM window up), start keeping your IM window open, even when you're not using your computer. She if she starts doing it, too. There's a good chance she's hoping to see you randomly send her an IM when she walks by her computer.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Simple, she agrees to meet you in real life and after the meeting she suggests, or agrees to meet yet again. In a nutshell, she's not going to hang out with you if she's not interested. Now the question is really whether or not she sees you as more than a friend.crackers444 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you are head over heals love with a girl definitely you would want to know if she likes you or not. Most Guys find women a mystery. But knowing the interest level of the girl is very important if you want to take a relationship forward or to decide if you are wasting your time on her or not. If the Man knows that the Woman is interested in him it would also give him the confidence to ask her on dates and more! However, knowing her interest level may not be very difficult if you watch her behavioral pattern and body language when you are with her. If you find that she is not interested in you it is time to move forward or cut your losses and move on to the next one. you can also apply all these points online