crackers444
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Hey, I am wondering what are the key signs a girl shows interest in you online. It isn't alway's clear sometimes online or in person for that matter!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are good signs a girl likes you online?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gangster Of Love
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crackers444 said:
Whe she tells you through IM/Email,etc. "Crackers444, we need to get together very soon, here is my number. Call me to schedule a meeting, because I want to meet."
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They reply to your email - and they put a bit of work into their reply (not just to brush you off or make a technical reply), and/or if they email you first. Since it's really tough to make a connection online it's safe to assume if she replies promptly that there is interest.
The Sperminator
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When she types lol a lot even when your jokes weren't funny.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
drummer
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When she sends you naked pics.
I met my boyfriend (though started as friends with benefits) online, via someone we both knew in RL. As I recall, I came out with something uber-subtle like: "So. Want to f*ck me?"
I'd say that's a pretty good sign.
Trust me, you'll know when she wants you. What medium do you use to chat? As in, is it via email, MSN, etc?
I'd say that's a pretty good sign.
Trust me, you'll know when she wants you. What medium do you use to chat? As in, is it via email, MSN, etc?
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I agree with the first part, although a lot of girls do play hard to get for the prompt repliesLuke Skywalker said:
It's hard to generalise. Some women may play hard to get, others might play sort of hard to get so they don't sound too forward - others will be like me and be about as subtle as a divebomber. What's her personality like? Her past history with guys, all that jazz? It's easier to (accurately) figure out a girl's responses, or lack thereof, if you actually take into account who she is. She's not a random in a club you met 10 minutes ago, so you have a bit more to work with.
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definetely. then again it's true that if a girl respnds promptly to everything, then you've got money in your hands, but it defeinetely isn't a do all end allVixen said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's almost impossible to tell when online.
I had this one who e-mailed every single day. I missed a reply one day, and she still sent one asking if that meant I wasn't interested. So she was keen.
Well I found out from her myspace that she's been seeing a few of us. It matched up with times she's said "i'm busy with friends".
She had been doing the exact same thing with several people.
Moral of the story: you can never get a "vibe" online. Everything can be faked with text.
I had this one who e-mailed every single day. I missed a reply one day, and she still sent one asking if that meant I wasn't interested. So she was keen.
Well I found out from her myspace that she's been seeing a few of us. It matched up with times she's said "i'm busy with friends".
She had been doing the exact same thing with several people.
Moral of the story: you can never get a "vibe" online. Everything can be faked with text.
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When she initiates the conversation a lot. Also, when she talks to you three or four straight hours. (Man, that reminds me how much of an AFC I used to be... I had a hottie who used to talk to me for hours online, and I wondered if she liked me... duh.)
If she's sexually interested in you, as was stated twist the converstion slowly to something sexual and see how she responds. It has to be a slow, gradual, subtle change, unless you're talking to Vixen
Another trick to do... If she's online intermittently (like she turns her computer off, versus people who leave their computer on and their IM window up), start keeping your IM window open, even when you're not using your computer. She if she starts doing it, too. There's a good chance she's hoping to see you randomly send her an IM when she walks by her computer.
If she's sexually interested in you, as was stated twist the converstion slowly to something sexual and see how she responds. It has to be a slow, gradual, subtle change, unless you're talking to Vixen
Another trick to do... If she's online intermittently (like she turns her computer off, versus people who leave their computer on and their IM window up), start keeping your IM window open, even when you're not using your computer. She if she starts doing it, too. There's a good chance she's hoping to see you randomly send her an IM when she walks by her computer.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Simple, she agrees to meet you in real life and after the meeting she suggests, or agrees to meet yet again. In a nutshell, she's not going to hang out with you if she's not interested. Now the question is really whether or not she sees you as more than a friend.crackers444 said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
you are head over heals love with a girl definitely you would want to know if she likes you or not. Most Guys find women a mystery. But knowing the interest level of the girl is very important if you want to take a relationship forward or to decide if you are wasting your time on her or not. If the Man knows that the Woman is interested in him it would also give him the confidence to ask her on dates and more! However, knowing her interest level may not be very difficult if you watch her behavioral pattern and body language when you are with her. If you find that she is not interested in you it is time to move forward or cut your losses and move on to the next one. you can also apply all these points online