“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What are all the IoI's?

jeffthechef

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I'm on vacation right now...and i see this girl about fifteen feet directly in front of me...i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...i know some of the ioi's such as playing with her hair, body facing you, etc...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested...plus my dad was with me..sigh:(
SO please list all the IoI's you know
Thanks :D
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Five To One

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I dont have a list of IoI but I hope your beating yourself up over not approaching her. Your not going to know 100% if she is interested until you talk to her and even if she isnt its no big deal. Your even on vacation, you wont ever see this girl again so dont worry about embarassing yourself.

And dont worry about your dad being there, I know I would be impressed and proud if I watched my son approach a girl (I dont have one yet but in the future).

Just have fun and learn from the approach, always.

Just wanted to say that, hopefully someone answers your question now.
 

WalkingStick

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It sounds like she was at least a little interested.

Eye contact and a smile is plenty as far as IOIs. A girl will never stare at you, giggling and playing with her hair while she nibbles her finger and pushes her breasts together. All she'll do is look at you and see if you have to balls to approach.

Five to One makes a great point. You don't need ANY IOIs to approach a girl. Sometimes they'll act disinterested or try to hide their interest. If you're interested, approach. She'll respect your confidence and if she's not interested, you dont have to ever see her again.

With that said, if you want really detailed info on IOIs, look for some stuff on body language around the forums.
 

Dank Juan

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jeffthechef said:
i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested.
Staring and feigning disinterest.
You're such a pu­ssy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CapCrunch

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dude you shouldn't NEED IoIs to aproach a girl, just go for it
 

crazyman11

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You know what you need to approach this woman?

You gotta grab your balls and go in. That's what I think whenever i'm thinking about whether or not i should approach a girl. Actually, you shouldn't even have to think about it, you should just approach an attractive girl automatically
 
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