"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are all the IoI's?

jeffthechef

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I'm on vacation right now...and i see this girl about fifteen feet directly in front of me...i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...i know some of the ioi's such as playing with her hair, body facing you, etc...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested...plus my dad was with me..sigh:(
SO please list all the IoI's you know
Thanks :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Five To One

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I dont have a list of IoI but I hope your beating yourself up over not approaching her. Your not going to know 100% if she is interested until you talk to her and even if she isnt its no big deal. Your even on vacation, you wont ever see this girl again so dont worry about embarassing yourself.

And dont worry about your dad being there, I know I would be impressed and proud if I watched my son approach a girl (I dont have one yet but in the future).

Just have fun and learn from the approach, always.

Just wanted to say that, hopefully someone answers your question now.
 

WalkingStick

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It sounds like she was at least a little interested.

Eye contact and a smile is plenty as far as IOIs. A girl will never stare at you, giggling and playing with her hair while she nibbles her finger and pushes her breasts together. All she'll do is look at you and see if you have to balls to approach.

Five to One makes a great point. You don't need ANY IOIs to approach a girl. Sometimes they'll act disinterested or try to hide their interest. If you're interested, approach. She'll respect your confidence and if she's not interested, you dont have to ever see her again.

With that said, if you want really detailed info on IOIs, look for some stuff on body language around the forums.
 

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jeffthechef said:
i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested.
Staring and feigning disinterest.
You're such a pu­ssy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CapCrunch

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dude you shouldn't NEED IoIs to aproach a girl, just go for it
 

crazyman11

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You know what you need to approach this woman?

You gotta grab your balls and go in. That's what I think whenever i'm thinking about whether or not i should approach a girl. Actually, you shouldn't even have to think about it, you should just approach an attractive girl automatically
 
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