"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What are all the IoI's?

jeffthechef

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I'm on vacation right now...and i see this girl about fifteen feet directly in front of me...i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...i know some of the ioi's such as playing with her hair, body facing you, etc...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested...plus my dad was with me..sigh:(
SO please list all the IoI's you know
Thanks :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Five To One

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I dont have a list of IoI but I hope your beating yourself up over not approaching her. Your not going to know 100% if she is interested until you talk to her and even if she isnt its no big deal. Your even on vacation, you wont ever see this girl again so dont worry about embarassing yourself.

And dont worry about your dad being there, I know I would be impressed and proud if I watched my son approach a girl (I dont have one yet but in the future).

Just have fun and learn from the approach, always.

Just wanted to say that, hopefully someone answers your question now.
 

WalkingStick

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It sounds like she was at least a little interested.

Eye contact and a smile is plenty as far as IOIs. A girl will never stare at you, giggling and playing with her hair while she nibbles her finger and pushes her breasts together. All she'll do is look at you and see if you have to balls to approach.

Five to One makes a great point. You don't need ANY IOIs to approach a girl. Sometimes they'll act disinterested or try to hide their interest. If you're interested, approach. She'll respect your confidence and if she's not interested, you dont have to ever see her again.

With that said, if you want really detailed info on IOIs, look for some stuff on body language around the forums.
 

Dank Juan

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jeffthechef said:
i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested.
Staring and feigning disinterest.
You're such a pu­ssy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CapCrunch

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dude you shouldn't NEED IoIs to aproach a girl, just go for it
 

crazyman11

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You know what you need to approach this woman?

You gotta grab your balls and go in. That's what I think whenever i'm thinking about whether or not i should approach a girl. Actually, you shouldn't even have to think about it, you should just approach an attractive girl automatically
 
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