"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What are all the IoI's?

jeffthechef

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I'm on vacation right now...and i see this girl about fifteen feet directly in front of me...i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...i know some of the ioi's such as playing with her hair, body facing you, etc...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested...plus my dad was with me..sigh:(
SO please list all the IoI's you know
Thanks :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Five To One

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I dont have a list of IoI but I hope your beating yourself up over not approaching her. Your not going to know 100% if she is interested until you talk to her and even if she isnt its no big deal. Your even on vacation, you wont ever see this girl again so dont worry about embarassing yourself.

And dont worry about your dad being there, I know I would be impressed and proud if I watched my son approach a girl (I dont have one yet but in the future).

Just have fun and learn from the approach, always.

Just wanted to say that, hopefully someone answers your question now.
 

WalkingStick

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It sounds like she was at least a little interested.

Eye contact and a smile is plenty as far as IOIs. A girl will never stare at you, giggling and playing with her hair while she nibbles her finger and pushes her breasts together. All she'll do is look at you and see if you have to balls to approach.

Five to One makes a great point. You don't need ANY IOIs to approach a girl. Sometimes they'll act disinterested or try to hide their interest. If you're interested, approach. She'll respect your confidence and if she's not interested, you dont have to ever see her again.

With that said, if you want really detailed info on IOIs, look for some stuff on body language around the forums.
 

Dank Juan

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jeffthechef said:
i keep glancing over and see her staring at me...i wanted to approach her but i couldn't tell if she was interested...she was staring but she was also checking out her fingernails as if she weren't interested.
Staring and feigning disinterest.
You're such a pu­ssy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CapCrunch

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dude you shouldn't NEED IoIs to aproach a girl, just go for it
 

crazyman11

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You know what you need to approach this woman?

You gotta grab your balls and go in. That's what I think whenever i'm thinking about whether or not i should approach a girl. Actually, you shouldn't even have to think about it, you should just approach an attractive girl automatically
 
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