"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What age did you guys lose your virginity?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Doesnt matter. I was 19...almost 20. Its better to do it with a girl you actually like as opposed to just screwing for the sake of losing your virginity. Thats easier said than done, but I have a buddy who was a virgin until he was 23 or 24, and he regretted his first because she was a skank and he just wanted to take the plunge. So dont rush.
 

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16.

and who cares when your first time is. when your 30 you arent going to look back on it and think 'oh how wonderful that first time was.'

instead youll look back and laugh that you made such a big deal about it.

do you remember the first time you drove a car? or had a beer? etc. f*ck no.

sentimental bullsh*t is for women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maxtro said:
22, from a hooker :down:
LOL bro...i had a chance to lose my virginity with a hooker once last year...couldnt do it. I knew it was gonna haunt me for the rest of my life if i did lose it to a tute.
 

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About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
 

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
To answer the question of this thread first: Hopefully before this year ends.

Yea, sadly im 22 and still a V-card holder:down: . Ive had opportunities just never took them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
Luke Skywalker
 

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19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
 

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I was 20. She was a stone-cold HB-8 babe too. Worth the wait....
 

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comic_relief said:
19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
Exactly.
 

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shoot does blowj0bs and fingering a girl count as losing your virginity?

if that is the case, then I lost it when I was 16.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Got a hummer at 15 if that matters
 
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ketostix said:
I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
 

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I could have lost it when I was 17 with some skank thinking I didn't want to lose it to a skank. I had a little bit of an awkward insertion when I was 19, but I didn't officially lose it until I was 21. Of course, I ended up just losing it some skank.
 

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It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
 
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ketostix said:
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
No, I"m 31 years old, thus I"m the oldest virgin on here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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