"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What age did you guys lose your virginity?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doesnt matter. I was 19...almost 20. Its better to do it with a girl you actually like as opposed to just screwing for the sake of losing your virginity. Thats easier said than done, but I have a buddy who was a virgin until he was 23 or 24, and he regretted his first because she was a skank and he just wanted to take the plunge. So dont rush.
 

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16.

and who cares when your first time is. when your 30 you arent going to look back on it and think 'oh how wonderful that first time was.'

instead youll look back and laugh that you made such a big deal about it.

do you remember the first time you drove a car? or had a beer? etc. f*ck no.

sentimental bullsh*t is for women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maxtro said:
22, from a hooker :down:
LOL bro...i had a chance to lose my virginity with a hooker once last year...couldnt do it. I knew it was gonna haunt me for the rest of my life if i did lose it to a tute.
 

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About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
 

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
To answer the question of this thread first: Hopefully before this year ends.

Yea, sadly im 22 and still a V-card holder:down: . Ive had opportunities just never took them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
Luke Skywalker
 

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19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
 

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I was 20. She was a stone-cold HB-8 babe too. Worth the wait....
 

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comic_relief said:
19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
Exactly.
 

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shoot does blowj0bs and fingering a girl count as losing your virginity?

if that is the case, then I lost it when I was 16.

comic_relief
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got a hummer at 15 if that matters
 
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ketostix said:
I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
 

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I could have lost it when I was 17 with some skank thinking I didn't want to lose it to a skank. I had a little bit of an awkward insertion when I was 19, but I didn't officially lose it until I was 21. Of course, I ended up just losing it some skank.
 

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It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
 
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ketostix said:
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
No, I"m 31 years old, thus I"m the oldest virgin on here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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