"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What age did you guys lose your virginity?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Doesnt matter. I was 19...almost 20. Its better to do it with a girl you actually like as opposed to just screwing for the sake of losing your virginity. Thats easier said than done, but I have a buddy who was a virgin until he was 23 or 24, and he regretted his first because she was a skank and he just wanted to take the plunge. So dont rush.
 

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16.

and who cares when your first time is. when your 30 you arent going to look back on it and think 'oh how wonderful that first time was.'

instead youll look back and laugh that you made such a big deal about it.

do you remember the first time you drove a car? or had a beer? etc. f*ck no.

sentimental bullsh*t is for women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maxtro said:
22, from a hooker :down:
LOL bro...i had a chance to lose my virginity with a hooker once last year...couldnt do it. I knew it was gonna haunt me for the rest of my life if i did lose it to a tute.
 

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About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
 

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
To answer the question of this thread first: Hopefully before this year ends.

Yea, sadly im 22 and still a V-card holder:down: . Ive had opportunities just never took them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ketostix said:
About 21 for me. I missed several chances when I was 15-21.

I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
Luke Skywalker
 

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19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
 

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I was 20. She was a stone-cold HB-8 babe too. Worth the wait....
 

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comic_relief said:
19.5 years old

I didn't feel any different after I lost my virginity. I was like, "This is it? It's no different than before."

It's not really that big of a deal, just everyone makes it out to be such a bigger deal than it really is.

comic_relief
Exactly.
 

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shoot does blowj0bs and fingering a girl count as losing your virginity?

if that is the case, then I lost it when I was 16.

comic_relief
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got a hummer at 15 if that matters
 
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ketostix said:
I have a question, how many on here are still a virgin. What's the oldest virgin here? lol
It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
 

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I could have lost it when I was 17 with some skank thinking I didn't want to lose it to a skank. I had a little bit of an awkward insertion when I was 19, but I didn't officially lose it until I was 21. Of course, I ended up just losing it some skank.
 

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It should be written, "Who" is the oldest virgin here. I think PuertoRican_Lover is the oldest virgin here!
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
 
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ketostix said:
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
No, I"m 31 years old, thus I"m the oldest virgin on here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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