Locster
Don Juan
I just moved in to my dorm room and Im about to start classes on thursday and since im the probably the least experienced guy on this forum what advice would you give regarding women and socializing?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What advice would you give to a college freshman?
- Thread starter Locster
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
make a good solid network of friends. Guys and girls.
Study and go to class.
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
realsmoothie
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1 - keep up your studies.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Freshman girls are honey as f*ck and with the new freedom they tend to be a little wild...and by wild i mean easy. All girls are horny. Get drunk. Do homework...get drunk more.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Locster
Don Juan
how do i cold approach these girls but at the same time be able to save face since im probably gonna see them again
Approach them like someone you just want to meet and get to know who they are.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
Locster
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spesmilitis
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One thing that works great for me is to sit with girls I don't know at the cafeteria. A lot of cute girls sit by themselves at cafeterias, and in my experience, I've never been told no when I asked to sit with them. It's pretty easy. Get the digits before you leave and you're in.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.