Locster
Don Juan
I just moved in to my dorm room and Im about to start classes on thursday and since im the probably the least experienced guy on this forum what advice would you give regarding women and socializing?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What advice would you give to a college freshman?
- Thread starter Locster
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
make a good solid network of friends. Guys and girls.
Study and go to class.
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
realsmoothie
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1 - keep up your studies.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Freshman girls are honey as f*ck and with the new freedom they tend to be a little wild...and by wild i mean easy. All girls are horny. Get drunk. Do homework...get drunk more.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Locster
Don Juan
how do i cold approach these girls but at the same time be able to save face since im probably gonna see them again
Approach them like someone you just want to meet and get to know who they are.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
Locster
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spesmilitis
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One thing that works great for me is to sit with girls I don't know at the cafeteria. A lot of cute girls sit by themselves at cafeterias, and in my experience, I've never been told no when I asked to sit with them. It's pretty easy. Get the digits before you leave and you're in.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.