Locster
Don Juan
I just moved in to my dorm room and Im about to start classes on thursday and since im the probably the least experienced guy on this forum what advice would you give regarding women and socializing?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What advice would you give to a college freshman?
- Thread starter Locster
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
make a good solid network of friends. Guys and girls.
Study and go to class.
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
Worry about girls and socializing secondary.
Getting the most pvssy and being the most popular guy on campus won't mean sh!t if you fail out.
Getting good grades, a degree and a good career will get you more women in the long run.
good luck!
realsmoothie
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1 - keep up your studies.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
2 - don't stress about what direction your academic career is going. you can always change your major, and you'll end up changing your mind when you're 25 anyhow.
3 - join clubs/groups. I don't care if it's hiking or chess or flag football or young communists or dungeons & dragons or whatever. All clubs allow you to make friends with common interests, and even if they're guys it'll allow you to make more people.
4 - don't get oneitis. By this I mean (and you'll see it on the site) don't get a crush on one girl and ignore others. Spread your seed...!
I envy you. College rocks. It may not be "the time of your life" but you'll remember it forever. Good luck and have fun.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Freshman girls are honey as f*ck and with the new freedom they tend to be a little wild...and by wild i mean easy. All girls are horny. Get drunk. Do homework...get drunk more.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Locster
Don Juan
how do i cold approach these girls but at the same time be able to save face since im probably gonna see them again
Approach them like someone you just want to meet and get to know who they are.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
You're just a guy who is new to college and wants to meet new people. Be fun and friendly. Don't worry about a g/f or getting laid, just try to meet people and the hookups will happen.
Get a good group of guy friends who like to go out and meet up with other groups of girls.
College will/should be the best years of your life, especially if HS wasn't so good.
Locster
Don Juan
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spesmilitis
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One thing that works great for me is to sit with girls I don't know at the cafeteria. A lot of cute girls sit by themselves at cafeterias, and in my experience, I've never been told no when I asked to sit with them. It's pretty easy. Get the digits before you leave and you're in.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.