“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What about THIS type of girl..

Oni

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-She thinks shes boring
-She doesn't think she's hot
-She's not trying to get a guy
-She's not trying to get into a relationship
-She's not sure of what she really wants

Fellow DJs...i'm trying to get her, but i don't know how to approach.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Oni
-She thinks shes boring
-She doesn't think she's hot
-She's not trying to get a guy
-She's not trying to get into a relationship with me
-She's not sure of what she really wants

Fellow DJs...i'm trying to get her, but i don't know how to approach.
fixed
 

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Yes it would sound like shes not trying to have a relationship with you. But you should still try to get her. Since it sounds like she has no self confidence, take advantage of that. She most likely wont make you stop if you kino her. Or just lean over to kiss her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oni

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but that doesnt solve the problem =[
 

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Make her feel good about herself, is the best tactic for girls with low self esteem. Im dealing with someone who is slightly similar but i think it is because she is new at our school and therefore very wary of everything. And then she had to bugger off on a compulsory (for her) school trip for a week, so im like stuck as she still is not texting me every day. :(

Anyway when she comes back im gonna build up her self esteem and in my case she said she is interested (and her few m8s say she is just bare worried about being new).
 

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what would be a good way of bringing up her self-esteem? complementing her?
 

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sounds like a trainwreck dont waste your time with her. not worth your time.
 

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She needs you to inflate her ego.

Now do the right thing and go get the pump.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by xomel
Yes it would sound like shes not trying to have a relationship with you. But you should still try to get her. Since it sounds like she has no self confidence, take advantage of that. She most likely wont make you stop if you kino her. Or just lean over to kiss her.
you could do that, but it wont make her like you, infact it could make her hate you. Like mentioned earlyer try and make her fele good about her self, she will love being around you, but just remember that if you over compliment her she will still not like you and if you raise her confidence then she will always have you to thank for that but, that does not mean that she will stick with you.

Theres not much you can do because of this, this si the kind of girl you could be very good freinds with, but trying to get in to a relationship with her is a lost cause, that does not mena give up but im saying it will not be easy and will not necciserly be possible. Like i said before, make her fell good aobut herslef, raise her ego but be prepaired for the day when she is confident and will ditch you, that day will come, its almost a certanty unless you change yourself for her as you go along, because when she is confident you will need to use C&F and neg-hit etc.. and everything you would do with a normal girl

hope iv been a help
 

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thanks check mate, right now, i'm just going to wait until homecoming. I'll avoid hanging out with her as much as possible and ask her to homecoming when it gets near. the thing is i dont know if she's even gonna go ugh! anyways, if she says yes then i'll start from there, if it's a no then ill just next her. but if its a no cuz im not going then uh..???
 

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she will be too shy to say yes, you need to get to know her better, so she is comfterable around you, otherwise she will say no.
 

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i forgot to mention something, we've been friends ever since middle school.

and we are rather close friends
 
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