Should you still try to be a challenge to a girl who isn't used to being hit on all of the time and doesn't think she's hot as hell? I've been talkin to this girl who I think is pretty cute and I have been runnin my game. The only problem is I don't think it's working because she is backing off, which is the total opposite of what chicks usually do. What's goin on?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What about chicks who are HB6 - HB7?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Well what's your opinion of an "HB6" or "HB7" is. Hopefully she doesn't resemble McGilla Gorilla: http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs29/f/2008/108/5/d/Magilla_The_Gorilla_by_wootbennett.jpgKG33 said:
Lol, but seriously, you should always be at least somewhat of a challenge to any woman you are interested in, else there will be little, if any intrigue. Yet, if she has some obvious shortcomings or flaws, you want to be careful since she may already be insecure and not have as much success with men as would a dimepiece ("HB10").
i know what u mean it makes no sense, but from what ive gathered the 10s get alot of attention but little actual hitting on which will lead to success, with the UG's noone wants them which leave a hell of alot 6's for everyone to battle over lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
What are your alternatives to being a challenge? To be available all the time? Bringing her flowers?
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Generally the less attractive, the less negs you use. Doesn't mean you should seem more available. Seem to be the same person, just treat her differently. You are the control, not the variable. Her confidence is the variable, tease it to create interest, don't bruise it.