Should you still try to be a challenge to a girl who isn't used to being hit on all of the time and doesn't think she's hot as hell? I've been talkin to this girl who I think is pretty cute and I have been runnin my game. The only problem is I don't think it's working because she is backing off, which is the total opposite of what chicks usually do. What's goin on?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What about chicks who are HB6 - HB7?
- Thread starter KG33
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Well what's your opinion of an "HB6" or "HB7" is. Hopefully she doesn't resemble McGilla Gorilla: http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs29/f/2008/108/5/d/Magilla_The_Gorilla_by_wootbennett.jpgKG33 said:
Lol, but seriously, you should always be at least somewhat of a challenge to any woman you are interested in, else there will be little, if any intrigue. Yet, if she has some obvious shortcomings or flaws, you want to be careful since she may already be insecure and not have as much success with men as would a dimepiece ("HB10").
i know what u mean it makes no sense, but from what ive gathered the 10s get alot of attention but little actual hitting on which will lead to success, with the UG's noone wants them which leave a hell of alot 6's for everyone to battle over lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
What are your alternatives to being a challenge? To be available all the time? Bringing her flowers?
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Generally the less attractive, the less negs you use. Doesn't mean you should seem more available. Seem to be the same person, just treat her differently. You are the control, not the variable. Her confidence is the variable, tease it to create interest, don't bruise it.