Should you still try to be a challenge to a girl who isn't used to being hit on all of the time and doesn't think she's hot as hell? I've been talkin to this girl who I think is pretty cute and I have been runnin my game. The only problem is I don't think it's working because she is backing off, which is the total opposite of what chicks usually do. What's goin on?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What about chicks who are HB6 - HB7?
- Thread starter KG33
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Well what's your opinion of an "HB6" or "HB7" is. Hopefully she doesn't resemble McGilla Gorilla: http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs29/f/2008/108/5/d/Magilla_The_Gorilla_by_wootbennett.jpgKG33 said:
Lol, but seriously, you should always be at least somewhat of a challenge to any woman you are interested in, else there will be little, if any intrigue. Yet, if she has some obvious shortcomings or flaws, you want to be careful since she may already be insecure and not have as much success with men as would a dimepiece ("HB10").
i know what u mean it makes no sense, but from what ive gathered the 10s get alot of attention but little actual hitting on which will lead to success, with the UG's noone wants them which leave a hell of alot 6's for everyone to battle over lol
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
What are your alternatives to being a challenge? To be available all the time? Bringing her flowers?
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Generally the less attractive, the less negs you use. Doesn't mean you should seem more available. Seem to be the same person, just treat her differently. You are the control, not the variable. Her confidence is the variable, tease it to create interest, don't bruise it.