Should you still try to be a challenge to a girl who isn't used to being hit on all of the time and doesn't think she's hot as hell? I've been talkin to this girl who I think is pretty cute and I have been runnin my game. The only problem is I don't think it's working because she is backing off, which is the total opposite of what chicks usually do. What's goin on?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What about chicks who are HB6 - HB7?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Well what's your opinion of an "HB6" or "HB7" is. Hopefully she doesn't resemble McGilla Gorilla: http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs29/f/2008/108/5/d/Magilla_The_Gorilla_by_wootbennett.jpgKG33 said:
Lol, but seriously, you should always be at least somewhat of a challenge to any woman you are interested in, else there will be little, if any intrigue. Yet, if she has some obvious shortcomings or flaws, you want to be careful since she may already be insecure and not have as much success with men as would a dimepiece ("HB10").
i know what u mean it makes no sense, but from what ive gathered the 10s get alot of attention but little actual hitting on which will lead to success, with the UG's noone wants them which leave a hell of alot 6's for everyone to battle over lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
What are your alternatives to being a challenge? To be available all the time? Bringing her flowers?
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
I don't think a girl's appearance should change your game. It's more about personality than looks. I mean, obviously if she's a model, you might want to play it a little cooler than usual. But whether a girl is a 6 or 8, or whatever you want to call her, there has to be some kind of challenge involved.
You can't be like, "Oh this girl is a 7, so I'm gonna act like less of a challenge." I don't see how that benefits you at all.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
Generally the less attractive, the less negs you use. Doesn't mean you should seem more available. Seem to be the same person, just treat her differently. You are the control, not the variable. Her confidence is the variable, tease it to create interest, don't bruise it.