"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What’s your best nightclub game ? What do you guys find most effective when you hit a night club since the hottest girls tend to be at the clubs!!????

Thechamp

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What’s your best nightclub game ? What do you guys find most effective when you hit a night club??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hamurabimbi

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I don’t really plan it out. Things just sort of ‘happen’. But I find that talking to girls about her (or my) drink & then trying a sip of each other’s drink tends to have a positive outcome.
 

Thechamp

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Go to the nightclub, drink,dance and have fun.

If you see a hot girl, just talk to her. It isn't rocket science and you don't need us to hold your hand.
I understand it’s not rocket science but know one here has it 100 percent down pat
 

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Oh **** thank god I re-read the post. At first I thought you were asking what was your best night club game as in "moment".. i have had plenty of mediocre nights but also plenty of LEGENDARY moments.

when things get really good and fun, i love just pointing girls out the crowd and doign a "come here" gesture with my finger.. i hate saying it even tho its not a secret move or anything.. but its something that i've done a buncha times thats perfect because if a girl complies, you're already in the door.

don't copy my ****! jk. its not mine. its just common sense. I remember the first time I ever did it. came out of just feeling confident. I had walked in to a club with 2 girls my boy and I had picked up at a bar before.. and kinda ditched the girl to do my own thing. I was just super confident that night.. ofc, i ended up hurting both girls feelings that night.. because i walked off on one of them, and then she saw me dancing with the other, who i also walked off on to find the first.. only to find out she was upset.. ended up going home with no girl that night.. but ever since then i would utilize that move when i felt really good.

That's all you boys get for now. I got a lot of tricks up my sleeve. and while I know not everyone can pull them off, i feel like its like a personal choice of cologne, you dont go screaming it out to people because you dont want all the other guys to use the same one lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pick 1 club and become a regular there.
It makes a huge difference when you know what nights are the best to go and when not to go.
The more often you go to the same club, the easier it is to get to know the staff.
You'll know which bartenders have the most generous pours and which ones have the most conservative.
Be friendly with everyone, because you never know.......
Someone might hook you up with free VIP one day!

Being a regular there puts you in a certain zone.
You'll automatically be confident every time you go there. Seeing familiar faces at the venue will boost your confidence like you wouldn't believe!
 
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