"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What’s your best nightclub game ? What do you guys find most effective when you hit a night club since the hottest girls tend to be at the clubs!!????
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Georgepithyou
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If you see a hot girl, just talk to her. It isn't rocket science and you don't need us to hold your hand.
Hamurabimbi
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I understand it’s not rocket science but know one here has it 100 percent down pat
r4zorsharp
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when things get really good and fun, i love just pointing girls out the crowd and doign a "come here" gesture with my finger.. i hate saying it even tho its not a secret move or anything.. but its something that i've done a buncha times thats perfect because if a girl complies, you're already in the door.
don't copy my ****! jk. its not mine. its just common sense. I remember the first time I ever did it. came out of just feeling confident. I had walked in to a club with 2 girls my boy and I had picked up at a bar before.. and kinda ditched the girl to do my own thing. I was just super confident that night.. ofc, i ended up hurting both girls feelings that night.. because i walked off on one of them, and then she saw me dancing with the other, who i also walked off on to find the first.. only to find out she was upset.. ended up going home with no girl that night.. but ever since then i would utilize that move when i felt really good.
That's all you boys get for now. I got a lot of tricks up my sleeve. and while I know not everyone can pull them off, i feel like its like a personal choice of cologne, you dont go screaming it out to people because you dont want all the other guys to use the same one lol
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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It makes a huge difference when you know what nights are the best to go and when not to go.
The more often you go to the same club, the easier it is to get to know the staff.
You'll know which bartenders have the most generous pours and which ones have the most conservative.
Be friendly with everyone, because you never know.......
Someone might hook you up with free VIP one day!
Being a regular there puts you in a certain zone.
You'll automatically be confident every time you go there. Seeing familiar faces at the venue will boost your confidence like you wouldn't believe!