"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What’s your best nightclub game ? What do you guys find most effective when you hit a night club since the hottest girls tend to be at the clubs!!????

Thechamp

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What’s your best nightclub game ? What do you guys find most effective when you hit a night club??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hamurabimbi

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I don’t really plan it out. Things just sort of ‘happen’. But I find that talking to girls about her (or my) drink & then trying a sip of each other’s drink tends to have a positive outcome.
 

Thechamp

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Go to the nightclub, drink,dance and have fun.

If you see a hot girl, just talk to her. It isn't rocket science and you don't need us to hold your hand.
I understand it’s not rocket science but know one here has it 100 percent down pat
 

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Oh **** thank god I re-read the post. At first I thought you were asking what was your best night club game as in "moment".. i have had plenty of mediocre nights but also plenty of LEGENDARY moments.

when things get really good and fun, i love just pointing girls out the crowd and doign a "come here" gesture with my finger.. i hate saying it even tho its not a secret move or anything.. but its something that i've done a buncha times thats perfect because if a girl complies, you're already in the door.

don't copy my ****! jk. its not mine. its just common sense. I remember the first time I ever did it. came out of just feeling confident. I had walked in to a club with 2 girls my boy and I had picked up at a bar before.. and kinda ditched the girl to do my own thing. I was just super confident that night.. ofc, i ended up hurting both girls feelings that night.. because i walked off on one of them, and then she saw me dancing with the other, who i also walked off on to find the first.. only to find out she was upset.. ended up going home with no girl that night.. but ever since then i would utilize that move when i felt really good.

That's all you boys get for now. I got a lot of tricks up my sleeve. and while I know not everyone can pull them off, i feel like its like a personal choice of cologne, you dont go screaming it out to people because you dont want all the other guys to use the same one lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pick 1 club and become a regular there.
It makes a huge difference when you know what nights are the best to go and when not to go.
The more often you go to the same club, the easier it is to get to know the staff.
You'll know which bartenders have the most generous pours and which ones have the most conservative.
Be friendly with everyone, because you never know.......
Someone might hook you up with free VIP one day!

Being a regular there puts you in a certain zone.
You'll automatically be confident every time you go there. Seeing familiar faces at the venue will boost your confidence like you wouldn't believe!
 
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