"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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went and learned to dance

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This girl and me have hung out a few times, she's in some classes, and the lack of any kissing or whatever so far is leading me to believe I'm getting close to friend-zone stuff. She's always touching me though and talking to me all the time and such so I figure I'm doing alright.

anyway, she's on msn telling me she can't do this dance routine because there's no way she'll find a replacement for it that she "knows enough and is tall enough" (hmmm ;)) so I ask a few questions about it and tell her we're doing it.
So we went today, I'm making faces and improvising (and I generally suck at this cha cha stuff, all new to me), she's laughing all the time and all over it. I'm out of my element though, for sure. I wasn't really leading anything though physically, even though there's tonnes of touching. This guy who's supposed to be teaching me gets in my way a lot. I tell her she's going to have to dress up in heels and a low-cut flashy dress for the big show. Before we have to leave she asks the dance teacher if us 2 can stay longer to practice.

Anyway, not too bad even though I have no clue what I'm doing. Only thing I'm worried about is that this sort of thing is too friendly (learning a routine together...) and that I'm horrible at this stuff.
Can't hang out with her outside of school for over a week (next next weekend maybe). Suggestions? comments? Ways to keep this from getting too friendly?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMG It's Patrick F*ckin' Swayze in DIRTY F*CKIN' DANCING. OMG!
 

Jay Jay

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stick with it

1. dancing IS NOT FREINDLY. dancing is very very sexual. you have you hands all over her, your bodies are moving in synchronisation... dude...

CAN YOU NOT SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE

2. if you don't bang this chick but become a good dancer becasue of it you will thank her for the rest of your life. if you can dance well you have p8ssy flying at you.

yeah i got a suggestion. next time you two are dancing alone pull her body real close against you look into her eyes and kiss her.

jj
 

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This is something I really want to get into. Dancing is super sexual, which is why so many girls love it. Jay Jay hit the nail on the head. Keep it up man, and remember this stuff. It'll be a big benefit to you, even if it doesn't seem like it.
 

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Yeah, just to let you guys know, i already have an update on this stuff only a few hours later - went to the park with some girl, when it got dark I showed her some cha cha (lol from what I know from only a few hours earlier) then we just screwed around and did a pretend tango and stuff.

already this dance stuff is beneficial lol
even if this girl doesn't end up with me it's already coming in handy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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