"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok, i;ve had some posts here and on the main DJ board, but since i am 17 and she is 16 , it best suits this forum. This girl I was introduced to by my brothers girlfriend has hung with us three times now, always in a group of 4 or more. Well my bros girlfriend told him that she likes me and stuff, and i honestly really like her. It is hard for me, since i am inexperieinced to be effectionite in public with her since we are not really comfortable around eachother yet. She is going away for a week from this saturday to next saturday so the next chance I get to see her is next sunday, probally later. It is really weird because normally when girls like me they touch me alot and flirt so much and stuff. She is kind of diferent and off-beat (which is part of the reason i like her) and she doesnt flirt like other girls have with me in the past. Well normally if she was all over me i'd be all over her in turn, but since she hasnt really touched me a whole lot (except for in the car she got scared -we were in back seat- and she was holding on to me).
So I need some advice, discussion about this to fuel my fire.

I also hope she doesnt lose interest while she is away, so I was thinking I would send her a few texts and ring her up a few times. I was also planning on teling her that when she gets back we have to hang out, just us, so it is more a date atmsosphere, which would lead to more touching and romantics and stuff, escpecially on my part (idk y but i am so different with girls alone, than with other people, notin a bad way, its just i never have a steady g.f so its a lil different for me). Im wondering if that is a good idea.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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First - read the Kino posts and learn how to gradually escalate.
Second - do not wait for her, ring her if you like while shes away, but DO NOT let other women pass you by till she gets back. Life is short and at your age it is the absolute BEST time to get out there and meet lots of women. If she comes back and you are still interested, great. Stay busy and stay focused and LOOK for other women to hang with. I repeat DO NOT wait for her to come back, that is one GIANT leap to AFC'ism.
Be glad you have this tool to use at 17, I would have loved to had this site available to me at that age.
 

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yea thanks...im deff gonna try and get some other girls to chill while she is gone....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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