"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, i;ve had some posts here and on the main DJ board, but since i am 17 and she is 16 , it best suits this forum. This girl I was introduced to by my brothers girlfriend has hung with us three times now, always in a group of 4 or more. Well my bros girlfriend told him that she likes me and stuff, and i honestly really like her. It is hard for me, since i am inexperieinced to be effectionite in public with her since we are not really comfortable around eachother yet. She is going away for a week from this saturday to next saturday so the next chance I get to see her is next sunday, probally later. It is really weird because normally when girls like me they touch me alot and flirt so much and stuff. She is kind of diferent and off-beat (which is part of the reason i like her) and she doesnt flirt like other girls have with me in the past. Well normally if she was all over me i'd be all over her in turn, but since she hasnt really touched me a whole lot (except for in the car she got scared -we were in back seat- and she was holding on to me).
So I need some advice, discussion about this to fuel my fire.

I also hope she doesnt lose interest while she is away, so I was thinking I would send her a few texts and ring her up a few times. I was also planning on teling her that when she gets back we have to hang out, just us, so it is more a date atmsosphere, which would lead to more touching and romantics and stuff, escpecially on my part (idk y but i am so different with girls alone, than with other people, notin a bad way, its just i never have a steady g.f so its a lil different for me). Im wondering if that is a good idea.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First - read the Kino posts and learn how to gradually escalate.
Second - do not wait for her, ring her if you like while shes away, but DO NOT let other women pass you by till she gets back. Life is short and at your age it is the absolute BEST time to get out there and meet lots of women. If she comes back and you are still interested, great. Stay busy and stay focused and LOOK for other women to hang with. I repeat DO NOT wait for her to come back, that is one GIANT leap to AFC'ism.
Be glad you have this tool to use at 17, I would have loved to had this site available to me at that age.
 
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yea thanks...im deff gonna try and get some other girls to chill while she is gone....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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