"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weird question: do gays have trouble approaching other gays?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
Do gay guys need tips too or is approaching only hard for male approaching females?
Me not being gay has no idea.

But i would assume a gay guy is typically the same as an afc. SO i'd say yes they do.
 

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I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
 

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I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a sh!t (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
That was way to much f*cking info
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
do gays have trouble approaching other gays?
Well, I don't know the answer to that one, but the filthy f*ckers seem to have no problem approaching me. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.

I'm not turning gay. I was just wondering if AFC'ism worked both ways.
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a sh!t (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

This post was too funny.



IMO, it shouldn't be hard for a gay guy to approach another gay guy, b/c they are both on the same team.

I was approached by one who used the line "are you from around here, or are you from heaven".... I laughed first, then proceeded to tell him I was straight. (I knew then and there how women felt when guys use bad lines like that though)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alright, let's get a little more philosophical. gay guys don't mind hitting on dudes, i know i've been hit on by gay dudes a lot.

it's not confidence.

it's because THEY KNOW THEMSELVES.

after a gay dude was rubbing my back for some strange reason at clubs.. i now know why girls get creeped out by guys doing the same thing to them.
 

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Why the **** post a question about gays, and their techniques when this is a forum for GUYS picking up WOMEN. (mainly) i'm sure there are some gays here.
 

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"do gays have trouble approaching other gays?"

I think it would all depend if they are approaching from the rear or not...;)
 

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have you guys ever been hit on by a gay dude before?

I have. I was at the bookstore looking around when this dude approached me and made some comment about the book i was looking at (i forgot what he had said) then he started asking me personal sh!t like whats my name, do i live around here,etc. I just told him to "hold that thought for a minute..." and walked somewhere else though. After that i felt hella weird. fvckin f@ggots!!

My question is, how do gay people know other people are gay? do they have this certain "gaydar" sense that tells them they should hit on that dude reading a cosmo magazine?? I know that castro is a gay hangout in the city, i dare not go through there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rofl @ moonman!

This has turned into a "how many bad jokes can you fit into a post" thread!

I'm sure its the same for gays, remember loads of them are so scared to admit they're gay, that they make out they're normal AFC blokes till they get so desperate they 'come out' for some manly action!.
 

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Originally posted by Ken785
have you guys ever been hit on by a gay dude before?

I have. I was at the bookstore looking around when this dude approached me and made some comment about the book i was looking at (i forgot what he had said) then he started asking me personal sh!t like whats my name, do i live around here,etc. I just told him to "hold that thought for a minute..." and walked somewhere else though. After that i felt hella weird. fvckin f@ggots!!
Come on dude. Bookstore in San Francisco? What do you expect? San Francisco has a lot of hottie chicks, they want a real man who can take charge. This is your chance to stand out.

Originally posted by Ken785

My question is, how do gay people know other people are gay? do they have this certain "gaydar" sense that tells them they should hit on that dude reading a cosmo magazine?? I know that castro is a gay hangout in the city, i dare not go through there.
These gay guys claim to have "gaydar", yet it seems to me like that's more like "wishful thinking", since they always want to hit on straight guys. They hit on straight guys because that one guy they hit on at that time is the guy they have the hots for.
 
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