"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Weird question: do gays have trouble approaching other gays?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
Do gay guys need tips too or is approaching only hard for male approaching females?
Me not being gay has no idea.

But i would assume a gay guy is typically the same as an afc. SO i'd say yes they do.
 

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I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
 

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I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a sh!t (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
That was way to much f*cking info
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
do gays have trouble approaching other gays?
Well, I don't know the answer to that one, but the filthy f*ckers seem to have no problem approaching me. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.

I'm not turning gay. I was just wondering if AFC'ism worked both ways.
 

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Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a sh!t (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!

This post was too funny.



IMO, it shouldn't be hard for a gay guy to approach another gay guy, b/c they are both on the same team.

I was approached by one who used the line "are you from around here, or are you from heaven".... I laughed first, then proceeded to tell him I was straight. (I knew then and there how women felt when guys use bad lines like that though)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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alright, let's get a little more philosophical. gay guys don't mind hitting on dudes, i know i've been hit on by gay dudes a lot.

it's not confidence.

it's because THEY KNOW THEMSELVES.

after a gay dude was rubbing my back for some strange reason at clubs.. i now know why girls get creeped out by guys doing the same thing to them.
 

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Why the **** post a question about gays, and their techniques when this is a forum for GUYS picking up WOMEN. (mainly) i'm sure there are some gays here.
 

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"do gays have trouble approaching other gays?"

I think it would all depend if they are approaching from the rear or not...;)
 

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have you guys ever been hit on by a gay dude before?

I have. I was at the bookstore looking around when this dude approached me and made some comment about the book i was looking at (i forgot what he had said) then he started asking me personal sh!t like whats my name, do i live around here,etc. I just told him to "hold that thought for a minute..." and walked somewhere else though. After that i felt hella weird. fvckin f@ggots!!

My question is, how do gay people know other people are gay? do they have this certain "gaydar" sense that tells them they should hit on that dude reading a cosmo magazine?? I know that castro is a gay hangout in the city, i dare not go through there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rofl @ moonman!

This has turned into a "how many bad jokes can you fit into a post" thread!

I'm sure its the same for gays, remember loads of them are so scared to admit they're gay, that they make out they're normal AFC blokes till they get so desperate they 'come out' for some manly action!.
 

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Originally posted by Ken785
have you guys ever been hit on by a gay dude before?

I have. I was at the bookstore looking around when this dude approached me and made some comment about the book i was looking at (i forgot what he had said) then he started asking me personal sh!t like whats my name, do i live around here,etc. I just told him to "hold that thought for a minute..." and walked somewhere else though. After that i felt hella weird. fvckin f@ggots!!
Come on dude. Bookstore in San Francisco? What do you expect? San Francisco has a lot of hottie chicks, they want a real man who can take charge. This is your chance to stand out.

Originally posted by Ken785

My question is, how do gay people know other people are gay? do they have this certain "gaydar" sense that tells them they should hit on that dude reading a cosmo magazine?? I know that castro is a gay hangout in the city, i dare not go through there.
These gay guys claim to have "gaydar", yet it seems to me like that's more like "wishful thinking", since they always want to hit on straight guys. They hit on straight guys because that one guy they hit on at that time is the guy they have the hots for.
 
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