Eighth Passenger
Don Juan
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Do gay guys need tips too or is approaching only hard for male approaching females?
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Me not being gay has no idea.Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
Do gay guys need tips too or is approaching only hard for male approaching females?
That was way to much f*cking infoOriginally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!
But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well, I don't know the answer to that one, but the filthy f*ckers seem to have no problem approaching me.Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
do gays have trouble approaching other gays?
Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a **** (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!
But eighth passenger don't turn and be a gay though if you think it'll be easier! You probably aren't gay, chin up, you'll get you hetero come uppance some day, women are worth all the trouble and hassle.
I doubt it - their targets aren't b*tchy women like ours are.Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I'm not turning gay. I was just wondering if AFC'ism worked both ways.
Originally posted by moonman53376
I tell you after watching my gay mates I have to say gays on the whole (sorry for the bad pun) do not any tips or advice for approaching other gays. Most of them do not find it hard (sorry) to approach another gay. They say its cos it's so sex orientated and they so just want a fvck or penis in the mouth that they don't give a sh!t (unless its on the end of their knob, haha). Even mega fat gays get action regularly!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Come on dude. Bookstore in San Francisco? What do you expect? San Francisco has a lot of hottie chicks, they want a real man who can take charge. This is your chance to stand out.Originally posted by Ken785
have you guys ever been hit on by a gay dude before?
I have. I was at the bookstore looking around when this dude approached me and made some comment about the book i was looking at (i forgot what he had said) then he started asking me personal sh!t like whats my name, do i live around here,etc. I just told him to "hold that thought for a minute..." and walked somewhere else though. After that i felt hella weird. fvckin f@ggots!!
These gay guys claim to have "gaydar", yet it seems to me like that's more like "wishful thinking", since they always want to hit on straight guys. They hit on straight guys because that one guy they hit on at that time is the guy they have the hots for.Originally posted by Ken785
My question is, how do gay people know other people are gay? do they have this certain "gaydar" sense that tells them they should hit on that dude reading a cosmo magazine?? I know that castro is a gay hangout in the city, i dare not go through there.