"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Weird message on myspace

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Some random girl from my area added me on myspace last week so I accepted her as a friend. I don't use myspace much so I wound up not checking it for almost a week. When I did, I had a message from her asking if I was with anyone right now, that she'd love to hook up for drinks or a movie and wanted to send me pics but didn't know my email address.

She's cute. Looks spanish, probably a 7 or an 8. I replied saying drinks or a movie sounds good, gave her my email too.

I still think this is weird. She's a good looking girl, why would she go out of her way like that? The pics thing weirded me out too. Why would she want to send me pics when she doesn't even know me? Should I proceed with caution? Ignore her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Proceed with caution.. Something smells a bit fishy.. Even if she was "for real", a woman who does this to you out of nowhere, is prolly doing the same thing to other guys too. That's IF she doesn't end up turning out to be a 300lb BBW. ;)
 

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LMAO I wouldn't be surprised at all if it was just a spam bot. You got played son.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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katatonia said:
LMAO I wouldn't be surprised at all if it was just a spam bot. You got played son.
Hahaha I got played? Check my other threads, I'm doing pretty well for myself and could care less if it was a spam bot or w/e.
 
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