"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weird message on myspace

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Some random girl from my area added me on myspace last week so I accepted her as a friend. I don't use myspace much so I wound up not checking it for almost a week. When I did, I had a message from her asking if I was with anyone right now, that she'd love to hook up for drinks or a movie and wanted to send me pics but didn't know my email address.

She's cute. Looks spanish, probably a 7 or an 8. I replied saying drinks or a movie sounds good, gave her my email too.

I still think this is weird. She's a good looking girl, why would she go out of her way like that? The pics thing weirded me out too. Why would she want to send me pics when she doesn't even know me? Should I proceed with caution? Ignore her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Proceed with caution.. Something smells a bit fishy.. Even if she was "for real", a woman who does this to you out of nowhere, is prolly doing the same thing to other guys too. That's IF she doesn't end up turning out to be a 300lb BBW. ;)
 
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LMAO I wouldn't be surprised at all if it was just a spam bot. You got played son.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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katatonia said:
LMAO I wouldn't be surprised at all if it was just a spam bot. You got played son.
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Hahaha I got played? Check my other threads, I'm doing pretty well for myself and could care less if it was a spam bot or w/e.
 
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