"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey..
i just wanna know about your opinion, in a month how much weight is enough for loss..??
share your opinion
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Depends on your starting point. If you have a lot of fat you can afford to drop weight quicker.

I'd say 1kg a week is fine.
 

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I lose up to 12lbs per week(5-6kg) during heavy cutting. I cycle 75-100 miles with just enough protein to feed my muscles, and I burn fat as energy. You need to be in ketosis. 75 miles puts me at a 4000+ kcal deficit, which translates easily to 400-500g of fat loss.
 

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Really, is it possible to weight loss in a month !! I think it's not possible, even weight gain too ! As per my experience this process takes minimum 3-6 months.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First of all, it's an important to for anyone to eat as healthy as possible.It will also help you considerably to lose weight gradually and naturally.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chath said:
I lose up to 12lbs per week(5-6kg) during heavy cutting. I cycle 75-100 miles with just enough protein to feed my muscles, and I burn fat as energy. You need to be in ketosis. 75 miles puts me at a 4000+ kcal deficit, which translates easily to 400-500g of fat loss.
You don't need to be in ketosis and if you lose 12 pounds a week, you are gonna be burning a load of muscle too.

OP: I lost 6 kilos in six weeks just by lowering my calories slightly below maintenance and by doing cardio 3-4 times a week
 

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The only effective way to lose fat, and virtually pure fat, quickly is via Alternate Day Fasting due to the huge spike in growth hormone which mobilizes fat for energy in the short term and protects muscle. Up to 90% of the weight you lose will be fat, far above any other method which at best is 50% fat, 50% muscle.

I've dropped 8-10 lbs a week at the start and 4-5 lbs on a continual basis is good depending on how much you have to lose. I also had a no holds bar cheat day once a week to boost leptin levels back up and ended up down 35 lbs in 9 weeks, and that included only losing about 4 lbs the last 2.5 weeks...

Other than that you basically have to be happy with losing muscle at the same time due to the hormonal environment your body is in...

Best advice either way is lift heavy to preserve as much muscle as possible
 

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Von Huge said:
You don't need to be in ketosis and if you lose 12 pounds a week, you are gonna be burning a load of muscle too.

OP: I lost 6 kilos in six weeks just by lowering my calories slightly below maintenance and by doing cardio 3-4 times a week

You'll lose plenty of muscle doing cardio too...at least 50% of what your losing is muscle
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomo

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You have to walk the line of losing a good amount of weight and the point where you can easily gain it back if you push yourself too hard. 1kg a week is acceptable. I find it easier not to focus on the weight loss numbers first but actually the diet.

Currently, I have a good fruit filled shake for breakfast, salad for lunch and good normal meal for dinner (although it's become salad as I actually enjoy eating this food now). You can surprise yourself with how filling these foods can be and the amount you can consume too compared to a burger and fries. At 1 month I've lost a good 5kg and have still had the odd meal where I allowed myself to cheat but hey, we're all human :)

And I'll add once the diet is sorted, get your exercise under wraps too. Its like a secondary beneficial means of weight loss. It should never be your primary method to lose weight.
 

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Sometimes you do not need big diet plans to start loosing weight, a few small changes in your daily lifestyle can do just the trick to help you loose weight.
Here are some things you can do
Do not have cold refrigerated water, always drink lukewarm water.
Every morning, take a glass of lukewarm water; add a pinch of onion seeds and 1 tsp of honey and drink.
Exercise regularly
 
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