Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.ValleyDJing said:I have used about 2 tubs of that s.hit. I gained 10 quick lbs after the first tub. I must have hit a plateau or something. I haven't gained a pound since.
dirtyvibe said:It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.
Consume the maintenance calories of a 150 lb person and you gradually approach 150 pounds until you're there.
You consumed your bodyweight + 10 lbs calories, got there, and are still consuming the same amount. You need to eat more now.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
100% agree, I took Weight Gainer last fall. Gain quite a bit of weight. But I went through about 6 or 7 tubes of that crap. Weight Gainer is a joke.Omen said:The tub ones are OVERPRICED and basically JUNK. Anything with the word gainer 2200 is a waste.