Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.ValleyDJing said:I have used about 2 tubs of that s.hit. I gained 10 quick lbs after the first tub. I must have hit a plateau or something. I haven't gained a pound since.
dirtyvibe said:It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.
Consume the maintenance calories of a 150 lb person and you gradually approach 150 pounds until you're there.
You consumed your bodyweight + 10 lbs calories, got there, and are still consuming the same amount. You need to eat more now.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
100% agree, I took Weight Gainer last fall. Gain quite a bit of weight. But I went through about 6 or 7 tubes of that crap. Weight Gainer is a joke.Omen said:The tub ones are OVERPRICED and basically JUNK. Anything with the word gainer 2200 is a waste.