Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.ValleyDJing said:I have used about 2 tubs of that s.hit. I gained 10 quick lbs after the first tub. I must have hit a plateau or something. I haven't gained a pound since.
dirtyvibe said:It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.
Consume the maintenance calories of a 150 lb person and you gradually approach 150 pounds until you're there.
You consumed your bodyweight + 10 lbs calories, got there, and are still consuming the same amount. You need to eat more now.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
100% agree, I took Weight Gainer last fall. Gain quite a bit of weight. But I went through about 6 or 7 tubes of that crap. Weight Gainer is a joke.Omen said:The tub ones are OVERPRICED and basically JUNK. Anything with the word gainer 2200 is a waste.