Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.ValleyDJing said:I have used about 2 tubs of that s.hit. I gained 10 quick lbs after the first tub. I must have hit a plateau or something. I haven't gained a pound since.
dirtyvibe said:It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.
Consume the maintenance calories of a 150 lb person and you gradually approach 150 pounds until you're there.
You consumed your bodyweight + 10 lbs calories, got there, and are still consuming the same amount. You need to eat more now.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
100% agree, I took Weight Gainer last fall. Gain quite a bit of weight. But I went through about 6 or 7 tubes of that crap. Weight Gainer is a joke.Omen said:The tub ones are OVERPRICED and basically JUNK. Anything with the word gainer 2200 is a waste.