She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.ValleyDJing said:I have used about 2 tubs of that s.hit. I gained 10 quick lbs after the first tub. I must have hit a plateau or something. I haven't gained a pound since.
dirtyvibe said:It's b/c you're not consuming enough calories anymore.
Consume the maintenance calories of a 150 lb person and you gradually approach 150 pounds until you're there.
You consumed your bodyweight + 10 lbs calories, got there, and are still consuming the same amount. You need to eat more now.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
100% agree, I took Weight Gainer last fall. Gain quite a bit of weight. But I went through about 6 or 7 tubes of that crap. Weight Gainer is a joke.Omen said:The tub ones are OVERPRICED and basically JUNK. Anything with the word gainer 2200 is a waste.